Yesterday is a nice date, 20/12/2012 ~
So fast have reached the middle of the month and second week of school hols... But in about one week's time, school going to reopen soon! *Opens mouth*
Holiday assignments not finished yet, cause thought that it is a long holiday before school starts >< I think is because I didn't spent a lot of time at home these few days so every day passed very fast. Last week I went for Gemininds meteor shower and some fyp grouping matters, then this week having cca meetings and going out with poly friends all that. If I had spent most of the time at home then I think time would passed by slower instead..
Till here, got to work on my assignments soon! Bye!
Friday 21 December 2012
Wednesday 12 December 2012
Arghhhhhh... Here to relieve some stress.. :p Sorry blog, left you alone after so long..
Wonder why a small conflict between two groups of people can affect me that much, and the reason is fyp grouping.. Hais.. feel like I'm being sandwiched between them and this is almost affecting me very much, even though I'm not showing it.. Don't know why have such a feeling.. By right, it's not my problem and not even a bit of it also.. :/ It is their problem and they should solve the problem themselves, why should I be bothered so much?? But as a friend, I felt I'm indirectly affected somehow and I think need to help them to resolve this conflict.. Why? Because I don't see they are trying to solve the problem. -_-
The conflict started about one week ago, last day of revision week before mid-semester test. One party, A, broke his promise and the other party, B, gets angry about it and the 'cold war' starts on the test week.. I did tried to ask one of them for the reason and solution for the conflict. I feel that A was more advisable than B, because when I tried to speak about the problem to B, he gets angry, like going to scold me any moment...(*fierce) T_T So what can I do? Nothing, nothing at all!
However there is still some questions wandering in my mind: Why B is so angry about A breaking his promise? Is there anything more to that reason? Why they don't want to open up and resolve the problem asap? Don't they themselves worry about not solving the problem?
So is it that they are prepared to continue the 'cold war' and avoid each other when school reopens and probably all the way for 1 year plus?! No, I'm not ready for that, not for the 1 year plus part! The parties involved are boys btw, so boys/guys act this way when they have a conflict? Avoiding the problem and not solving it? How long they want to avoid? Maybe they thought my other two friends and I won't be affected by their problem? False! =( I think I also need to open out my thoughts about this problem to them, hopefully they would want to listen... I thought after mid-sem test it would be sort of fine, but after I seeing them this afternoon(Tue), it is not fine at all. The 'cold war' is still there, those awkward, uneasy moments is still there.
Hais.. help is needed!~~~ How to solve? How to solve? How to make them open out their feelings to each other? I think is harder to open out B's feelings cause he usually close up his feelings while A is more willing to share his feelings.. Hope some kind of miracle would happen or some idea would come out suddenly so it can be resolved...
Relieve session over... I think will rant here again sometime.. Bye!
Wonder why a small conflict between two groups of people can affect me that much, and the reason is fyp grouping.. Hais.. feel like I'm being sandwiched between them and this is almost affecting me very much, even though I'm not showing it.. Don't know why have such a feeling.. By right, it's not my problem and not even a bit of it also.. :/ It is their problem and they should solve the problem themselves, why should I be bothered so much?? But as a friend, I felt I'm indirectly affected somehow and I think need to help them to resolve this conflict.. Why? Because I don't see they are trying to solve the problem. -_-
The conflict started about one week ago, last day of revision week before mid-semester test. One party, A, broke his promise and the other party, B, gets angry about it and the 'cold war' starts on the test week.. I did tried to ask one of them for the reason and solution for the conflict. I feel that A was more advisable than B, because when I tried to speak about the problem to B, he gets angry, like going to scold me any moment...(*fierce) T_T So what can I do? Nothing, nothing at all!
However there is still some questions wandering in my mind: Why B is so angry about A breaking his promise? Is there anything more to that reason? Why they don't want to open up and resolve the problem asap? Don't they themselves worry about not solving the problem?
So is it that they are prepared to continue the 'cold war' and avoid each other when school reopens and probably all the way for 1 year plus?! No, I'm not ready for that, not for the 1 year plus part! The parties involved are boys btw, so boys/guys act this way when they have a conflict? Avoiding the problem and not solving it? How long they want to avoid? Maybe they thought my other two friends and I won't be affected by their problem? False! =( I think I also need to open out my thoughts about this problem to them, hopefully they would want to listen... I thought after mid-sem test it would be sort of fine, but after I seeing them this afternoon(Tue), it is not fine at all. The 'cold war' is still there, those awkward, uneasy moments is still there.
Hais.. help is needed!~~~ How to solve? How to solve? How to make them open out their feelings to each other? I think is harder to open out B's feelings cause he usually close up his feelings while A is more willing to share his feelings.. Hope some kind of miracle would happen or some idea would come out suddenly so it can be resolved...
Relieve session over... I think will rant here again sometime.. Bye!
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